The Artificial Virgin
66He thinks I am still a virgin
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Beliefs,Religion and Cultures IN 2009
In some cultures, it is forbidden to have sexual relations with your significant other before the wedding. There may be lenghty marriage and premarriage rituals but you must both wait.
These customs and beliefs are firmly held by most Islamic, Moslem, Jewish ,Christians and other religions.
The belief in abstinence prior to marriage, if held, would solve the problem of teen and unwed parenting, sexual abuse, and sexually transmitted infections to name just a few.
Not to mention the repeated hurt and confusion experienced when there is a break up after sex had occurred.
There is a bonding of the soul during sex, and especially for most females, there is a feeling of oneness with the person. Is that why most females never forget the person who took her virginity? Especially with lost virginity, there is a union and a covenant cut in blood, which results in a deeper sense of loss and pain. Some people literally feel that "he stole my heart".
At this time in the history of the world, there is so much mixing of cultures and tainted beliefs, that, that which was once taboo, is now quite acceptable. There is pressure all around to change ones standards and beliefs. If it doesn't hurt anyone then it must be okay myth is pervasive.
Artificial Hymen Kit
Artificial Vagina Kit
This device is designed to trick the husband into believing that his bride was a virgin. Being manufactured by a company in China called Gigimo, a mail order group for intimate items.
In Egypt, some Clerics are outraged, saying that this item condones and will promote premarital sex.
Other more conservative Muslims site double standards for females and males and thinks that most females in their culture preserves their virginity anyways.
Happy Trusting Couples
Honesty, Truth and Trust
This kit may be a deception and I believe in truth, honesty and building trust, especially in relationships of endurance like a marriage. I guess, for some young women, in the cultures already highlighted, it is not that simple. She may lose her life as well as the dowry, not to mention the shame to her and her family.
What if she was sexually molested as a child, or raped and then kept that secret/ Should she then be shamed some more?
So after really looking at the device and examining several potential situations, I can see why such a device may be a great thing for some young lady.
I pray though that truth and love would prevail over dishonesty and masks in each and every relationship.
Premarital Sex Debate
- The Premarital Sex Debate - Associated Content - associatedcontent.com
This article details a strong argument for waiting for marriage before having sex.
Would you use the Artificial Hymen (Women only)
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Wow, that was great. That's a big issue that more people should talk about. Premarital sex is not okay, despite what a large amount of people think. People say it's between you and the significant other but it can ruin people's lives.
I have been professionally working with men and women for a long time, and the issue of "virginity" is still a big deal even among young men who are out screwing everything that moves! They insist upon marrying a virgin! Hello! I've never quite firgured out that they haven't figured it out!! The ol' double standard prevails in so many arenas.
What I always tell young women, in particular, who are heart broken about their lost virginity is that perhaps "virginity" is more about a person's whole life and not just the condition of a relatively small part of their body or a given moment or period in their life when they were who knows what. Acting out we call it or searching for something out there that is actually only found IN there.
I'm also amazed and shocked at how many mothers are quite intrusive and almost in a manner, sexually abusive, when they drag their daughter unwillingly to the doctor demanding to know if she is a virgin or not. Usually a pretty good indicator that Mom lost hers in some regrettable way!
Anywho, as professionals in the field of health and mental health, I think we need to encourage women (perhaps men as well) to develop some "rituals" for lack of better word, or ceremony, perhaps, to healing their lost virginity. You know, maybe virginity really isn't something that someone can take from you. Maybe it is always there inside you for the dusting off and taking!
I don't mean to be simplistic or dismissive of the pain of realizing that you lost something precious, but I'm not convinced that one or several or a bunch of sexual encounters can take something away from you that is so much more beyond one's hymen.
And this ritual would not be about forgiveness for the bad things I've done, but more of a restorative ritual and healing. When you injure yourself, the skin grows back, the bones fuse, etc. So why can't I heal my virginity. It's really more about my virgin energy and my virgin soul than it is about a small piece of membrane or whatever it is!
That's not to imply that I am in favor of having sex whenever and with whoever before you are married. But the reality is many people do engage in sex before marriage, but that does not mean at the moment they decide to engage, that they can't stop and say, okay, so what's it going to take for BOTH of us to heal whatever brokenness there is inside each of us around our sexuality and how can we both become "pure" again so we meet each other at the altar "spotless."
Just a few thoughts. Hey, and thanks for the blog. I like your blogs and I enjoy commenting on them!
OOPS! I just noticed the caption on the photos, "He thibks I'm still a virgin." My response is YOU ARE, somewhere deep inside, and no one can take that away from you. If you were not still a virgin, you would not be interested in committing yourself to him!
Thanks for your thoughtful addition to this hub. I appreciate and enjoy the depth of your comments. They have greatly enhanced my hub. I look forward to your additional input.
Gracias.
i do not like the artificial things specally in this things
Hi Can any body tell me from where do we get this kit?
If anybody know please tell me the website link. Please help me with this
Hello girl, Thanks for reading the article. The item was carried by gigimo. I noticed that they are out of stock and "no longer available"
Try googling virginity kit. All the best.
Virginiacare Ltd. look in? google! This is the best? quality from germany and answer....
I m really vv upset..
I lost ma virginity
in a love affair::
n realised later:
-
dat he made me a fool
in d mask of love:
now i m goin 2 marry in a year::
wat shud i do?
I don even hav much money 2 buy dis kit?
Y??
Y only v galz hav 2 proov our virginity:
now plz suggest me+
--how can i make ma husband 2 blv dat i was a virgin??
Plzz help ::
shud i tell him b4 marriag
dat m nt vrgn??
Rather dan spoilin my married life???
M scaredd
creativeone59 Level 4 Commenter 2 years ago
Great hub that gives you the heads up on sex before marriage. Thank you for sharing. creativeone59